Oh Brother!
“A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for adversity.” Proverbs 17:17
I was privileged to have been born into a larger family. All my siblings are brothers, no sisters. My seven brothers have proven, through the years, the reality of this biblical saying that “a brother is born for adversity.” It seems to me the phrase has a two-fold meaning. First, siblings are those who know us quite intimately and therefore through straightforward talk, yet an understanding heart, are able to prepare us for the challenges of life. In my slang, “brothers have toughened me up!” Do not despise the rather “in your face” interaction of family. They may be preparing you for the volatility of life. Second, “a brother born for adversity” carries the meaning that when things seem to be going in reverse, a brother will be there to help carry the load. Like the song says, “he’s not heavy, he’s my brother!” Often a family member walks in when others walk out. My question is not “do I have a sibling like that” but rather “am I a sibling like that?” Am I there for them, even when the “there” is costly and uncomfortable?
