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	<title>I&#039;m Still Learning &#187; Leadership</title>
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		<title>Wow.</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 07 Aug 2010 15:19:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[For the last two days I have been overwhelmed with inspiration and instruction on how to be a better leader. As a pastor of this church, I must lead, and I must lead well. This year’s Leadership Summit was my 8th to attend. Every year I walk away motivated to dig in deeper and excel [&#8230;]]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-447" title="The 2010 Global Leadership Summit" src="http://srfconnect.me/donaldcalder/files/2010/08/120x240_Web_Banner.jpg" alt="The 2010 Global Leadership Summit" width="120" height="240" />For the last two days I have been overwhelmed with inspiration and instruction on how to be a better leader. As a pastor of this church, I must lead, and I must lead well. This year’s Leadership Summit was my 8<sup>th</sup> to attend. Every year I walk away motivated to dig in deeper and excel in my pastoral leadership. I wish I could perfect my leadership with attending just one Leadership Summit, but it will be a work in progress for the rest of my life. My apologies to those of you who must bear with me (ha).</p>
<p>I honestly felt like some of the guest speakers had been studying my life for the last 8 months. (Ha.) They hit me right between the eyes. God knew what I needed to learn and he delivered it on a silver platter.</p>
<p>This year just might be the best Summit I have attended. Every session I walked away with gold nuggets of information. To have so many from this church (spanning all ages) attend was incredible. I sense that many of us are on the same page and understand what it means to move forward and see how the Local  Church is the Hope of the World.</p>
<p>Some things can only be described as WOW. And this year’s Leadership Summit can best be described by me as WOW.</p>
<p>Pastor Donald Calder</p>
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		<title>Failure&#8230;UGH!!</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Jun 2010 09:34:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[If you&#8217;re anything like me, you don’t like to fail. Somewhere along this journey of growing and maturing into adults, we’ve learned that failure is unacceptable. But what happens when you find yourself in leadership? Many get paralyzed because they have this fear of failure. Fear is one of the enemy’s greatest tools. When we [&#8230;]]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div id="attachment_262" style="width: 304px" class="wp-caption alignleft"><img class="size-full wp-image-262 " title="Gladiator-Thumb-Down" src="http://srfconnect.me/files/2010/06/Gladiator-Thumb-Down1.jpg" alt="Commodus says: Fail." width="294" height="166" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Commodus says... fail!</p></div>
<p>If you&#8217;re anything like me, you don’t like to fail.</p>
<p>Somewhere along this journey of growing and maturing into adults, we’ve learned that failure is unacceptable. But what happens when you find yourself in leadership? Many get paralyzed because they have this fear of failure. Fear is one of the enemy’s greatest tools. When we are afraid to fail, we fail to dream. If you are going to dream and follow through on some of those dreams, failure is not an option &#8211; it is a must.</p>
<p>Leo Buscaglia said it well: “We seem to gain wisdom more readily throughout our failures than through our successes. We always think of failure as the antitheses of success, but it isn’t. Success often lies just the other side of failure.”</p>
<p>Craig Groeschel said, “If you are not failing, you have stopped dreaming. You‘ll eventually stop learning. And you will stop growing. Those who have ‘it’, fail often.”</p>
<p>Let me be honest&#8230; I have failed many times, and in doing so I am learning how to fail gracefully, and am learning some principles along the way. Thankfully God isn’t finished with me yet.</p>
<p>Join us this year as we learn about failure AND success during the <strong><a href="http://srfconnect.com/component/banners/click/www.srfconnect.com/index.php?option=com_content&amp;view=article&amp;id=44">2010 Global Leadership Summit</a></strong> on August 5-6.</p>
<p>Pastor Donald Calder</p>
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		<title>Truth Not Found in a Textbook</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Jun 2010 16:10:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Donald]]></dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The last time I blogged on leadership I said it gets “messy,” and it’s true. This truth does not come from a text book that I read, but from personal experience. So when the task is messy and it gets difficult, I choose to do two things: First, I turn to people who have spiritual [&#8230;]]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://srfconnect.me/files/2010/06/SA023612-Textbooks1.jpg" target="_blank"><img class="alignright size-thumbnail wp-image-251" title="Textbooks" src="http://srfconnect.me/files/2010/06/SA023612-Textbooks1-150x150.jpg" alt="Textbooks" width="150" height="150" /></a>The last time I blogged on leadership I said it gets <strong>“messy,”</strong> and it’s true. This truth does not come from a text book that I read, but from personal experience. So when the task is messy and it gets difficult, I choose to do two things:</p>
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<li>First, I turn to people who have spiritual      depth. The leader who thinks he can always do it on his own without input      from wise counsel is in <strong>Big Trouble</strong>.      I am truly grateful for the men and women in my life that I can turn to      for counsel who have more life experience or different life experience      than I do, and have journeyed with God longer than me or differently than      me. They are a priceless treasure of resource.</li>
<li>Secondly, it is very easy to get jaded and      bitter in leadership, so I must choose to seize joy in the midst of a      mess.  Don’t let your emotions      overtake your mission. With so many “joy-robbers” around, I must seize the      joy, or I could go a long time without any.</li>
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<p>I hope you will join us this year for the Global Leadership Summit on August 5-6.</p>
<p>Pastor Donald Calder</p>
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		<title>What To Do When Things Get Messy</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 21 May 2010 07:26:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Donald]]></dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Anyone that grew up around me knows I am not the kind of person that really liked getting dirty. I was the kind of child that could play in the dirt with his friends all day and not get any dirt on me. When my buddies ask me to go 4 wheeling back in the woods and it [&#8230;]]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Anyone that grew up around me knows I am not the kind of person that really  liked getting dirty. I was the kind of child that could play in the dirt with  his friends all day and not get any dirt on me. When my buddies ask me to go 4 wheeling back in the woods and it just finished raining, I know it  means I would get muddy, and so I can comfortably respond to the invitation  with, &#8220;I have a previous appointment.&#8221; (Ha.)</p>
<p>So to my surprise, I heard last year at the Leadership Summit that  leadership can get messy. UGH!!  I have been avoiding getting dirty my whole life  and now I am told the position I hold can get messy. I don&#8217;t think I fully understood what that really meant until 2010. I should have known last  year that God would be up to something in my life if I am hearing that  leadership is messy. Why did I need to know that? Was that trivial information or pertinent information?</p>
<p>When one gets covered in manure (which is not only dirty, but smelly), one quickly begins to wonder why he doesn&#8217;t get out of the way and go on an extended cruise where cow manure is not plentiful. However, when leadership gets messy, that is not the time to run and become passive &#8211;  it’s definitely the time to become pro-active. Therefore, 2010 has been the  year that I need to be more pro-active. (Even though cruising the  Caribbean would have been more to my liking, it wasn&#8217;t what I was called to do.)</p>
<p>I want to encourage you to consider joining us this year for the Global  Leadership Summit 2010. The dates are August 5&amp;6. I really believe these two days will encourage, energize and equip you for where God has placed you  at this time.</p>
<p>Pastor Donald Calder</p>
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		<title>Looking forward to seeing you</title>
		<link>http://srfconnect.me/donaldcalder/2010/05/19/looking-forward-to-seeing-you/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 19 May 2010 16:46:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Donald]]></dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Today my mind is racing with thoughts about this year’s Leadership Summit. I am wondering what I will learn, what is it that I need to learn, and how will I lead differently because of my involvement this year. I don’t know the answers to these questions, but I do know I will leave a [&#8230;]]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Today my mind is racing with  thoughts about this year’s  Leadership Summit. I am wondering  what I will learn, what is it that I need to learn, and how will I lead  differently because of my involvement this year. I don’t know the  answers to  these questions, but I do know I will leave a different person than when  I  walked  through the doors to this year’s event.</p>
<p>I encourage you to do your  best to participate  in this year’s Summit. Like always, the speakers are top notch  and will stretch us to think beyond what we have considered in the past.  The  theme is &#8220;Lead Where You Are,&#8221; and whether that be in the home,  workplace,  community, or church, we all have a circle of influence. I really  believe StoneRidge has good leaders, but together let&#8217;s go from being   good leaders to great leaders.</p>
<p>I guarantee these two days  together will sharpen our  leadership skills and take us to the next level as we all influence  people on a  daily basis. As the host church for this event, our church is given a  significantly discounted rate of $105 +tax. This rate is half the price  most  attendees will pay, but it expires on June 22nd. I am encouraging you  to  register for the Summit this week at the Welcome  Centre.</p>
<p>Looking forward to seeing you this  year at the Summit!</p>
<p>Pastor Donald Calder</p>
<p>PS.  I  was reminded of something David  Gergen said at the 2009 Summit: “If you want to go fast, go alone. If  you want to go far, then go together.” I believe we want to go far, so  let&#8217;s do it  together.</p>
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